Tag: stoicism
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Break Free from People-Pleasing in Love: A Stoic Approach to Healthy Relationships
I used to say yes when I meant no. I’d go out of my way to avoid disappointing people, even if it cost me my peace, time, or sanity. Sound familiar? People-pleasing can feel like kindness, but deep down, it’s often fear in disguise—fear of rejection, conflict, or not being “good enough.” That’s where Stoicism…
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Stoicism and Tantrums: How to Stay Calm When Your Child Isn’t
As a parent, few things test my patience like emotional outbursts from my kids. Whether it’s a toddler throwing themselves on the floor because they got the purple cup instead of the blue one, or a teenager slamming doors over being denied a sleepover—tantrums aren’t just for toddlers. Emotional flare-ups happen at every stage of…
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The Stoic Way to Deal with Ghosting: Finding Peace Instead of Pain
The Pain of Disappearance Ghosting can feel like an emotional punch to the gut. One day, you’re talking to someone, sharing laughs and making plans. The next, they vanish—no explanation, no closure. It’s frustrating, confusing, and often painful. But as a student of Stoicism, I believe there’s a way to handle ghosting with grace, dignity,…
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Why Stoicism is Key to Setting Boundaries that Stick
For most of my life, setting boundaries felt uncomfortable. Whether it was with family members, in romantic relationships or with fellow colleagues, I often found myself agreeing to situations I didn’t want to be in, when all I really wanted to say was “no”. I worried about how others would react and feared being seen…
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8 Ways To Look Stoic When You’re Internally Losing it
Ever had one of those days where you want to flip a table, but you also want to appear like an unshakable pillar of wisdom? Same. Insert favorite curse word here. Today is testing me, so I figured—why not write about it? Stoicism is all about self-control, but let’s be honest—sometimes we’re just barely holding…
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Own Your Throne: How Stoicism Fuels Your Queen Energy
True power isn’t about dominance or control—it’s about self-mastery. A queen doesn’t chase approval or let emotions dictate her path; she moves with purpose, resilience, and unwavering confidence. This is what I call Stoic Queen Energy—the ability to lead your life with wisdom, strength, and grace. In a world that constantly tests our boundaries, Stoicism offers…
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How To Trust Your Gut—But Like A Stoic
Have you ever had a gut feeling about something—whether it was a big life decision or a subtle warning sign—but weren’t sure if you should trust it? We’re often given advice like “trust your gut” or “follow our intuition,” but without awareness, instincts can be clouded by emotions, biases, or external pressures. As a Stoic,…
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Why Stoicism is the Secret to Thriving in New Relationships
When I first started dating, I was excited but also unsure of how to navigate the complexities of new relationships. I’d been practicing stoicism for a while and hoped that its principles could help me stay grounded amidst the highs and lows of meeting someone new. The thrill of connection was often accompanied by moments…
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Cultivating Financial Freedom: A Stoic Approach to Wealth and Peace of Mind
Financial freedom is a goal many aspire to, but achieving it often feels overwhelming in a world of endless material desires and societal pressures. This is where Stoicism, an ancient philosophy, offers timeless wisdom. By embracing its principles, we can cultivate a mindset that prioritizes control, resilience, and long-term well-being over fleeting pleasures and external…
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Stoic Strategies for Healthier Social Media Habits
In our modern world, social media has become an routine part of daily life. While it offers benefits, such as staying connected with loved ones and accessing a wealth of information, it also has its pitfalls. The constant blast of notifications, the comparison to others, and the overwhelming amount of content can lead to anxiety,…
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